Theresa and our life together. I will try to convey from time to time just what it was like to have Theresa as part of our world, what she was to me and our BOYS, not just a wife, not just a mother, but a wonderful companion and a friend for life. I will be adding more as the days,weeks, months, and years go by. She was my light, my soul and my heart beat. I met Theresa through the job, I came from Ireland to start on the 27/06/1987. Theresa was working in the Jockey bar at the Hilton London Gatwick at the time and I was working as a Kitchen Porter and I used to see Theresa walking through the main kitchen on a daily basis, picking up food or dropping of dirty plates and glasses for me to wash up so I guess you can say she had me in training from day one doin the dishes . Our first date was in the chequers hotel in Horley, how nervous was I not knowing what to expect, thinking that she was out of my league and yet full of excitment at the prospect of dating her. I guess you can say I was hooked from the start.Well I am able to write a bit more.Our first date was in the Chequers Hotel Horley we sat and chatted ,got to know each other better.I was affraid as I was not sure of Theresa at the time she had a lot goin on in her life and i had just got over a bad relationship, so we took it slowly,a while later I was moving in to her Mums and it took off from there.